There’s some weird, awful, self-fulfilling circle going on here.
Lesbian and gay people dislike having bi people in their circles, due to any number of reasons, so they exclude them.
The bi people are scared to go into “queer” spaces, so they live their lives in heterosexual spaces (not quite fitting in) and eventually wind up in het paired relationships.
The lesbian and gay people yell “AHA I KNEW IT MOST BISEXUAL PEOPLE WIND UP IN HET PAIRED RELATIONSHIPS FAKERSSS” and their negative opinions about bisexuals are affirmed.
More bi people are excluded, winding up in het relationships, scared to enter queer spaces.
The cycle continues.
How are bi people supposed to meet other queer people to befriend and love and date and fuck if we aren’t allowed in queer spaces in the first place?