Answers to questions:
3, 12, 16, 19, 20
1: Don’t do. Don’t judge those who do.
3: “Anything worthwhile is dangerous.” - Victor Anderson
12: Not as often as I should!!!
16: I believe we rest in the Afterlife for a time until our souls are refreshed, then it’s time for another trip. I believe that the material world is the center and focus for much if not most of the spiritual world… possibly because I like the symmetry of this.
19: I am wholeheartedly in favor of cursing those who do ill, and there is not much one can do that is worse than rape.
20: It depends. This is a complicated answer. Exclusions that act up the “chain,” so to speak - a subaltern group excluding members of the dominant group for safety - are ok. Exclusions that act down the “chain,” excluding members of a subaltern group for the purpose of establishing dominance - are NOT.